Did Robbert give BMJ the bad news?

It would appear so. From an article in The People:

"The first I knew was when I saw my nephew in the tunnel immediately after the game and he pulled me to one side and told me what everyone else seemed to know already," Jol told The People.

consistent with what Robbert said he was a puppet in a play

but I thought the "sack" was made before the game

I imagine he's unlikely to tell us.
...unless we get him back over to HK for a couple of pints.

on the soccernet now...

http://soccernet.espn.go.com/news/story?id=476624&cc=4716